Greetings to the Children of God,
As you know, I have been in the wake of extended family grief with my father-in-law’s death in June, my father’s death in November and my brother-in-law’s death in January. The seasons of Advent and Christmas were very difficult for me. At the January council meeting I requested a week of bereavement leave for the last week of January and was graciously given this time off.
I am very grateful to our council for this time off. I spent the week with my brothers and sisters going through our childhood home and finalizing the sale of this home to my niece.
The home was purchased by my grandfather and my mother never left her childhood home which translates to many treasures being found in the three attics, hall closet, plus all the hutches and cupboards. My car was full for the return trip. It was a lot of hard work, and we only touched the tip of the iceberg. I am grateful to my brothers and sisters who will do the lion’s share of the work.
In my rummaging, I found my dad’s dog tags that now reside with his flag. I was surprised to find his social security card that was made of metal. Many other discoveries and way too much stuff, purchased and never used. Stashed away and forgotten. But the time with my siblings was delightful as memories were shared and challenging at times as we tried to figure out a system of dispersal.
It was a time of meals shared and for us to be together in a way that we haven’t for a long time. Thank you for this opportunity to tend to extended family and to grieve. Those who have walked this path know of its turns and twists. It’s hard. Thank you for the grace you have extended to me. Thank you for your prayers and care. It is felt and well received.
Bold Inquisitive Belief Loving Expansively,
Pastor Connie Spitzack
P.S. Epiphany words are still available in a basket on the table at the entrance. Grace is our community Epiphany word. Mine is prayer. Good words to lead and guide me.